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A whole new world.

by Elliott A., Gender Bender from Atlanta, United States

19 comments · 5 · February 2, 2014


Elliott Alexzander - Christian Dior Mint Green Sweater, H&M Lace Leggings, Black Hat, Heels - A whole new world.
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  1. Mint Green Sweater

    Christian Dior


    , in Christian Dior Sweaters
  2. Lace Leggings


    , in H&M Leggings
  3. Black Hat

    , in Hats
  4. Heels

    , in Heels

From birth, we are each assigned a gender based on physical sex. (males are boys and females are girls)
We grow up being required by society to uphold the expectations of that gender if we want to fit in.
Why can’t we see that there is something wrong with this? Why is it so hard for so many to grasp the idea that gender is not something you are born with.

Society says,
“To be a boy you need to look sharp or rugged.
To be a girl you need to look stunning and beautiful.”
I say,
“What is wrong with looking like a boy?
What is wrong with looking like a girl?
Absolutely nothing, unless your mother, your father, your peers, your employer, your friends, your family and the rest of society is expecting you to look like something you are not.”

As a biological male I was expected to grow up and ‘be a man!’ But what does that even mean?

What is so wrong about growing up to just simply be a great human being?

I am Elliott Alexzander, and this is my inspiration for chapter 2 of my story.

#thisismystory @lookbook @lovenailtree

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Marjh Collado
Col P
Wow! What can I say, an amazing look, you pull off your unique gender fluid style so well, always managing to put stunning and interesting outfits together, conveying a touching vulnerability with a fierce pride. Your story and thoughts are so inspirational, you really are liberating men from the tyranny of deathly gender stereotypes, helping people to see that they really can just be themselves, and be so much happier and creative as a result. Thank you Nx
Elliott Alexzander
Thank you nick! Thank you for your continued support and encouragement!

You are exactly right. I try to catch peoples eye with my style, so that I may have the opportunity to explain to them on how and why my personal fashion sense actually represents a much bigger part of my life than just my love for fashion. My goal is to inspire!

Julie Capulet
love your story or better true knowledge and your whole style, just perfect <3
Elliott Alexzander
Thank you! More of my story and outfits coming soon!
Julie Capulet
I red your story again and again and your just such a strong person with a soul like a fairy, I would not have the courage to write that honest and "clean" it´s very very special like you but that your such a great spirit after all this is not te normal way you can be really proud of you :) Sorry that I first wrote that simple... I just was fascinated of the way you are and express yourselfe <3
Carolina Munhoz
Wow! Amazing hair. Amazing outfit! I'm in love with this
Elliott Alexzander
Thank you!
Thank you so much!!!!
Emilee Bristol
this is absolutely perfect. i love your looks so much.
Elliott Alexzander
Thank you! More outfits to come soon!!!!!!
Julie Capulet
And now as I said another <3 for my fav. ;)
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Matthew Youden
Everything about this is phenomenal. The story is really heartfelt and lovely as well. Keep posting more amazing looks
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Tom Brassington
Love you for being you
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