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What will you choose? in situations like THIS?

40 comments · save · last comment by Shaz O. over 2 years ago

Ronel Jibril Ornido

Ronel Jibril O.

21ST CENTURY,
Philippines

64 posts

would you go to a person you love most? but can't love you back?


OR?


to a person who will surely love you, but you don't love that much?



explain your answer why?!

over 3 years ago

#1
Zizzi's Wardrobe

Zizzi's W.

LONDON,
United Kingdom

64 posts

Neither!!! Lol, I know that's an annoying answer but in cases of unrequited love why choose either?? If you're with someone who loves you when you know you don't/won't return their feelings, you're using them and run the risk of really hurting them. If you're with someone who doesn't love you and never will you're setting yourself up for unnecessary pain... Better too be on your own imo! xx

0 · April 18, 2011

#2
Jason Elijah

Jason E.

United Kingdom

122 posts

well theres always another option of someone who love u and u love back in it :P

0 · April 18, 2011

#3
Nix L

Nix L.

AUSTRALIA,
Australia

314 posts

To a person who will surely love you, but you don't love that much?

My love for them will grow overtime, EVERYBODY WINS... yaaaaaaaay!

0 · April 18, 2011

#4
Spirow W/e

Spirow W.

WHEREVER THERE'S A PARTY,
Greece

158 posts

to the person that YOU love...you can always hope that things might work out and he'll get to love you as much as you do even if he hasn't given you signs that he can change.. i have done this before and i haven't regret it.. he may haven't treated me really great but at least i felt sth when i was him.. even if he didn't.

0 · April 18, 2011

#6
Alexe G

Alexe G.

MONTREAL,
Canada

1917 posts

I'd be more prone to going for the person I loved. Even if it didn't work out. Only because I don't like kidding myself into thinking I like someone enough for a relationship to last, I've done it before and just made a huge mess.

0 · April 18, 2011

#7
Kayla Dee

Kayla D.

LONDON,
United Kingdom

696 posts

Actually, I was in a situation pretty much like this about a year ago. It was a tough decision, but eventually I chose the person I wasn't sure if I loved but I knew they loved me and now I'm the happiest I've ever been.

So if I had to choose again, I'd still go for the person who loves me but I don't love them so much. Because then I can still "learn" to love them more overtime when I spend more time with them, and then it's a win-win.

0 · April 18, 2011

#9
KRYSTELLE C.

KRYSTELLE C.

NEW YORK,
United States

59 posts

The first, even though that would be such a tragic situation for me. Then again, I could always just learn to love the other peson that I don't love that much.

0 · April 22, 2011

#10
Randi  Butler

Randi B.

NEW YORK, NY,
United States

2402 posts

i guess i rather be a spinster and adopt a bunch of children.
because both sound like suck-ass relationships

0 · April 22, 2011

#11
Alex G

Alex G.

COPENHAGEN/WARSAW,
Denmark

904 posts

"I'd rather be a cat woman" was my first thought, but I would however go for the person to love me more, as i am too insecure and paranoid to not be sure if someone loves me back or not.

0 · April 22, 2011

#12
Zeta L.

Zeta L.

ATHENS,
Greece

105 posts

The first one..Love is always painful.The second option is not even a thought for me.I can only be with someone that i really love and like.

0 · April 22, 2011

#13
Kesi Woo

Kesi W.

LAGUNA,
Philippines

100 posts

Person I love most but can't love me back. :)
Reason? Because FOR ME, love isn't progressive. It's a status.
It's either you love a person or you don't. So I think there's no such thing as "don't love that much".

0 · April 23, 2011

#16
Celina Valdez

Celina V.

CARSON,
United States

660 posts

Neither, im a free bitch baby!!!!!!!!!!

0 · April 23, 2011

#17
Edward Honaker

Edward H.

SAN DIEGO,
United States

1462 posts

Neither. All I need is my guitar!

0 · April 24, 2011

#18
Brennan Murray

Brennan M.

MARYLAND,
United States

67 posts

Neither, cause I know there is a better situation out there for me somewhere.

0 · May 6, 2011

#19
D M

D M.

WHERE THE WILD THINGS ARE,
United States

63 posts

Niether, It'd be a total waste of time either way and I'm not a fan of that.

0 · May 6, 2011

#20
Amanda Santana

Amanda S.

Brazil

92 posts

pretty much, neither... but it's hurtful, for sure, to be with the one you don't love and never get to love the person as much as he/she loves you... for both sides

0 · May 6, 2011

#21
Ciara McC

Ciara M.

N. IRELAND,
United Kingdom

163 posts

neither, not the first situation because if its that obvious she/he doesnt love you then then your just will get hurt. The second depends on whether you belief that ull never love that person or that your just unsure about it? if your unsure then i'd say give it a chance, u can always end it later when you do know for sure

0 · May 6, 2011

#22
Elise :]

Elise :.

SYDNEY,
Australia

929 posts

I would probably choose the 1st out of blind devotion because I am like that

0 · May 12, 2011

#23
Michelle Bobe

Michelle B.

NEW YORK CITY,
United States

167 posts

I'm not one to fall in love, whoever I'm most attracted to I guess. But since I rather be liked more, then the second.

0 · May 17, 2011

#24
Ronel Jibril Ornido

Ronel Jibril O.

21ST CENTURY,
Philippines

64 posts

@Kayla D.

WOOOW! thankss <3

0 · January 25, 2012

#25
Therese Isabelle Dahle

Therese Isabelle D.

ASKIM,
Norway

270 posts

Neither. I'd rather wait for a person i love and that loves me back aswell then.

0 · January 25, 2012

#26
Sophie Rebecca

Sophie R.

LONDON,
United Kingdom

4364 posts

Neither, keep on looking. You need to be sure that the person you go after is right for you and it sounds like neither of those people are!

0 · January 25, 2012

#28
Lucy Kate

Lucy K.

Australia

99 posts

i think most people want an equal relationship. you know where you love each other the same. but in reality that never works. there is always someone who loves the other more. from my experiences you def want to be the one who is loved more. there is always a leader and a chaser. never be the chaser.

0 · January 25, 2012

#29
Reiel Limlengco

Reiel L.

MANILA,
Philippines

307 posts

neither.
it should always be equal.
i'd rather be single than be with someone that i dont really love but really loves me
or be inlove with someone who doesnt love me back.
so much pain.

i'll just wait for the person that will love me and i'll love back.

0 · February 18, 2012

#30
Sonora S

Sonora S.

KENTUCKY,
United States

24 posts

If I had to choose...I'd say someone I'm mildly fond of who loves me back.
Loving someone who doesn't care so much about you hurts. So very much.
But yeah as people are saying equal is always wonderful!

0 · February 19, 2012

#31
Lucy Kate

Lucy K.

Australia

99 posts

i wouldnt want to be in either position
but i guess if i had to choose i would rather have the person love me.

0 · February 27, 2012

#32
May A

May A.

LUXEMBOURG,
Europe

969 posts

I don't know what I would choose, but I think that I should choose the person who loves me.

0 · February 27, 2012

#33
Abbie Giffin

Abbie G.

HELL, ENGLAND,
United Kingdom

193 posts

there's nothing worse than loving someone who doesn't love you back, i wouldn't like to be in either situations but probably the person who loves me

0 · February 27, 2012

#34
Jim Dunlop

Jim D.

VICTORIA, BC,
Canada

509 posts

Imperfect love > no love at all

0 · February 27, 2012

#35
Serban Vlad

Serban V.

TERREALM,
Italy

12 posts

well if you think with your brain,neither. but if you think with your heart,choose the second.i had some experience with that and i can tell you: you could learn,and you WILL learn to love the one that loves you,but if you love someone that doesn't love you back,you will be (almost) always unhappy.choose wisely.

0 · February 27, 2012

#36
Grace B

Grace B.

COLLEGEVILLE, PENNSYLVANIA,
Japan

22 posts

If I had to choose probably number 1.

I am always the one who cares less.
My boyfriends get clingy and frustrating.

I would hate both, but I would hate a boyfriend who couldn't love me less than one who loved me too much

0 · March 4, 2012

#37
Hannah Kim

Hannah K.

IN YOUR FRIDGE ♥,
United Kingdom

92 posts

Neither, you should wait until you fall hopelessly in love with someone who has fallen helplessly in love with you.

0 · March 5, 2012

#38
Lucy D

Lucy D.

LONDON,
United Kingdom

576 posts

I'll go for neither as well. In either of those situations, at least one of you is going to be unhappy.

0 · March 6, 2012

#39
Liberty Dye

Liberty D.

LONDON,
United Kingdom

277 posts

Well obviously neither but if I had to pick one I'd definitely go for to a person who will surely love you, but you don't love that much.
My love will grow sooner or later for them, unless they're old and creepy.

0 · March 6, 2012

#40
Shaz Omg

Shaz O.

United Kingdom

1319 posts

to the person who loved me, because i would eventually fall in love with that person for loving me

0 · March 7, 2012

  

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