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I used to dress in lolita fashion, but after 3-4 years as a lolita I have left the fashion. My new style takes inspiration from other Japanese styles such as mori, dolly, natural kei, otome and others.
There is something you should know about lolitas. We do not seek the attention lolita brings. We do not dress up to be stared at or asked about (or to seduce men, omg!). You got it all wrong. Lolita is not about other peoples opinions. If you place a lolita alone in the forest she will still be a lolita. She does not need an audience to be a lolita. Lolitas follow their own rules, independent by others. She dress up for no other than herself.